Every Person's Search for a Happy Ending

sometimes we're so focused on finding our own happy ending, we dont learn to read the signs. how to tell the ones who wants us from the ones who dont. the ones who will stay from the ones who will leave.

and maybe this happy ending doesnt include a wonderful (someone). maybe it's you...on your own... picking up the pieces and starting over. freeing yourself up for something better in the future.

maybe the happy ending is just... you moving on.

or maybe the happy ending is this: knowing that through all the unreturned call and broken hearts... through all the blunders and misread signals... through all the pain and embarassment... you never ever gave up hope.

from the movie "he's just not into you"

What It Means to be Hardcore

deep down, everyone wants to believe they can be hardcore. but being hardcore is not about being tough... it's about acceptance. sometimes you have to give yourself permission to not be hardcore for once. you dont have to be tough every minute of everyday.it's okay to let down your guard. in fact there are moment when it's the best thing you can possibly do... as long as you choose your moments wisely.


[grey's anatomy]

Desire

Too often, the thing you want most is the one thing you cant have. Desire leaves us heartbroken. It wears us out… Desire can wreck our lives. But as tough was wanting something can be… The people who suffer the most, are those who don’t know what they want.


[grey's anatomy]

Heard of the Love Hormone?

it's a hormone that's produced during childbirth, lactation, and sex. people call it the love hormone. you know how it feels when you first fall in love... the weak-in-the-knees, tatoo-you-on-my-chest thing? that's oxytocin.

of course it eventually fades and then you're stuck with every relationship ever. that, and the painful regimen of tattoo removal...



[supernatural, season 4]